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Ten Signs That a Man Truly Loves You

In our society today, we witness men treating women badly, for instance, talking down at them and hence leading them to depression; we see men hurting children to get back to their wives; and we see men being physically abusive to their women. Most women stay in these relationships because the man always comes around and tells her how much he loves her until the next incident happens. In this blog, let’s look at the signs that will tell you if a man loves you or not.

Your Birthday

Honestly, a man who truly loves you will always remember your birthday. When is your birthday? is the question every couple asks each other early in the relationship. A man who loves and cares for you will always regard your birthday as a special one. He will at least make time to take you out for dinner if he cannot take you out on a short trip. He will buy gifts, and the gifts do not have to be necessarily expensive; what we care about is the intention. Even a bouquet of your favorite flowers should be enough. If the resources are not available, the least he can do is spend time with you and cook a simple, special meal at home.

Public Holidays

On public holidays, most people do not go to work unless they work in the healthcare industry or in hotels or shopping outlets. If your man does not work in any of the sectors I have just mentioned, then he will spend the day with you. Some men have a bad habit of spending all their free time with friends and forgetting about their women. If he really loves you, he will spend the entire day with you, and if he has to go somewhere, he will bring you along.

Special Events

If there are any special events for his workplace or friends, he will ask for your company. He is proud of your company and is always excited to have you next to him for special events. If your man never invites you to his special events, unless it is clearly specified that no spouse is allowed, he is not all that into you. We may say that even lovers need time alone, which is absolutely correct, but not always. From what I have witnessed over the years, men always bring their spouses to special work-related events.

Grocery

A man who loves you will always ensure that you are well fed. He will buy groceries and even follow up to check if you have had your meals. If you are not living together, he will never come to see you empty-handed, but instead, he may call in advance to ask if you need anything. When he calls to ask if you need anything, whatever you say, he will purchase it and bring it over to you. Sometimes he may be busy because of work, but whatever he does, he will send you money and ask you to ensure that you buy food. He eats at your house because he provides.

Favorites

He knows the things that you like. He knows your style in regards to fashion; he knows what kind of shoes you like by looking through your closet; he knows what you like to eat; and he even knows your favorite snack. A man who truly loves you even knows what you like for entertainment; if you like going to the movies, he will buy tickets for both of you to go watch a movie. He loves you, he knows what you like and your favorite things, and he makes an effort to ensure that you get what you deserve. He may just ask you about your favorite car, and when you tell him, he starts saving to surprise you with the car someday. He goes the extra mile for you.

Triggers

When you are in a relationship, you may end up talking about your triggers in your day-to-day conversations. Your man may also learn with time about what triggers you, what makes you angry, and try his best not to get you triggered. He protects your emotions because he wants you to be okay and happy all the time.

Gifts

Women are naturally materialistic, and men know that. If he really loves you, he will buy you gifts, and when you are having a child for him, he will give you some special gifts. A man who does not give you gifts at all is doing an injustice to you as a woman. He probably does not care because all women get really excited when they receive gifts. The gifts do not always have to be expensive, but because the intention is there, the woman is happy and feels cared for.

Friends and Family

A man who loves you will proudly introduce you to his friends and family at some point in their relationship. The day he confesses his love for you, he will take you to his family so they can meet you. If a man takes you to his parents, siblings, and other members of the family, it means he is serious about you. He positively talks about you to his friends and invites them to come and meet you, the love of his life. If you are in a relationship and you do not know his family or his friends six months into the relationship, maybe you better start packing your belongings.

Protect You

If he loves you for real, he will protect you with everything he has. When you meet and start your relationship, he will introduce you to his friends and family. Some family members could potentially hate you for reasons best known to them. They will tell your man terrible things about you; at this point, your man must never believe what he is told about you unless you tell him yourself. He must always put you before his own family and friends and protect you all the time. He will have a very good understanding that not everyone may support his relationship with you, and therefore, its up to him to protect what he loves.

Future Plans

We all have plans for our future. A man who loves you will discuss the future with you, for instance, how many children you should have, how to raise them, investments to make, design of your retirement home, etc. Just from the way he talks to you about the future, you can already tell that he loves you and intends to make you his wife. If he does not discuss his future plans with you, like how he plans to grow in his career, you may not be the one. Never ignore the red flags.

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