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Handling the Finance Topic in Marriage

Take the risk and be financially open with each other. Be open and let your partner see your financial life. By opening up, you will get to know them, if they are a scatterer or a gatherer, you will get to see what they are made of. It is easier to hide, be secretive, and be more instinctive, to keep your things licked away, but you will never measure as a team if this happens. If you don’t unite in money matters, you won’t unite in life. Money answers everything. Harmonize your financial philosophy. People develop financial philosophies from their families and how they witnessed the issue of money being handled. You breath it in until it soaks. For instance, those people who witnessed their parents transition from grace to grass may have a financial trauma, even of hoarding money. Align what you believe about money and your relationship with money with theirs. Discuss it until you can find an agreeable approach. Learn to flow with money, not to fight with it. When you know what you are good at and you perfect it, then your financial crisis will usually and only be a small interruption. There are two philosophies about money, to hoard it to be safe or to earn it to be safe. You may be coming from opposite ends because of what you witnessed, but this is a reminder that you are not doomed to live like your parents. But if you don’t heal, you are doomed. Those who don’t understand history are condemned to repeat it. Money is vapor, it’s your mindset that is the stabilizer. How you think about money is what will make it stay or go. your discipline not to buy everything you see, to show up at work on time, to convert that next client, to make sure you buy and sell at the best price, to watch the market and import when it is timely, and to convert the dollar when it’s advantageous. Have regularmeetings where you discuss financial decisions and directions so that you arrive at your family policies.

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