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How do you Know a Man is Not Interested in you?

Someone once told me that if you see a man and feel some chemistry, there is a ninety percent chance that he feels the same way about you. I used to believe that, and I did for some time, but not anymore. You may meet a man and naturally feel like he is the one or have the illusion that he is the one, if I may say so, but every time you see him, whenever you talk to him, it always feels like there is something not adding up. In this blog, we talk about how you can tell that a man is not interested in you.

Does not Pick your Calls

It’s normal to call someone, but they do not pick up the call. I mean, it’s a busy world. He could be at work, maybe in a meeting, driving, or at home taking a shower, or in a noisy place. There are endless reasons. We cannot therefore assume that if a man does not call you, he is not interested in you. However, if you call him and he does not pick up, if he is someone who is interested in you, they will have an automatic response that, as soon as you call and he cannot pick up, you will receive a message saying he will call you back. If you do not receive any message, then he should call you back as soon as he possibly can. I do not take it personally if my man does not pick up my calls, but if it becomes a pattern, like he does not always pick up my calls, never calls back, or calls back after two days, then there is a big problem, he is simply not interested.

Never Takes you Out on a Date

Normally, a man who is interested in you will go out of his way to take you out on a date. If you refuse, he will persist until you accept to go out with him. He will be patient with you, and even if it takes you six months to accept going out with him, he will wait. You will know he is not interested if he never takes you out with him.

He never tells you he Loves You

A man who is interested in you will not struggle to express his emotions to you, he will tell you he loves you. He may not say it at the beginning just to make sure you are comfortable and so instead, he may say things like he likes how you smile, he loves how you walk, he loves how you look at him and when he gets more comfortable and confident enough to take action, he will say the magic words, ‘I love you.’ If he is not interested, I love you are words you will wait for until the end of time.

Never Complain About Anything you Do

You will know a man is not interested if he never questions what you are doing. If you are a student, he will never ask why you spend all your time studying, why you go out with friends, which friends you are going out with, where exactly you are going, or what time you plan to be back. He will never ask you why you are home late. If you do not prepare dinner, he will not ask why, instead, he will walk into the kitchen and prepare his own meal. If your friends come to the house, party, or listen to loud music, they stay until midnight. He does not like it, but he won’t say anything. This guy is looking for a way out, he is not interested, and whatever you do is none of his business.

Never Makes Time for You

If he loves you, you will become his priority, and he will make every effort to spend quality time with you every week. If he cannot be with you physically, he will call you and send assuring text messages to show that he is there for you. He can never be too busy for you because you are his woman, and he cares. If he does not make any time for you, he does not care, you can as well move on with your life.

Avoids you on Valentines Day

Valentine’s Day is a special day, it’s the day of love. This is one day that I personally plan for and look forward to. Valentine’s Day is a day that can actually tell you if your man is interested in you or not. If he has two girlfriends, he will spend the day with the one he loves, and the other one will wait to hear his excuses. If he is interested in you, he may just confess his love for you on Valentine’s Day.

He talks to you at his convenience

A man who is interested in you will keep the conversation going both day and night, he makes it a habit to talk to his woman. If he talks to you or maybe calls once a week, he is not interested. When you call him, he does not pick up the call, but then you receive a message that says, “I’ll call back,” but he never calls back. You call him, but he does not take the call and calls you back two weeks later, like nothing happened, and he does not even talk about it. He is not interested; actions speak louder than words.

Never Introduce you to Family and Friends

You are dating this guy, but you do not know any of his relatives or friends, We can say, Okay, let’s be patient, let’s give time sometime, but six months later, you do not know his friends or family. You should know that he is not interested. If he is interested, the longest it should take for you to meet his family is six months. Friends you can meet as soon as possible. When you meet someone you have a connection with, you normally know immediately, so if you cannot meet even one of his friends, there is a problem.

Picks Fights with You

He finds a reason to pick fights with you all the time; for instance, laughing out loud could upset him enough to make him angry. You dress up to go out with your friends, the fact that you are going out with your friends just to relax makes him angry and asks you to choose between him and your friends, you cook food, he goes like it’s too salty and throws insults at you, nothing pleases him, and he is always at war.

Does Not Trust You

He keeps checking your phone, and if you have a password on your phone, he wants to know it so he can follow through with your conversations. You dress in a very stylish manner to go out with him, he will accuse you of trying to get other men to admire you, you receive a call, he wants to know who is calling you. The man does not trust you and is suspicious of every move you make. This behavior can actually lead you into depression because you never have any peace. A man who is interested in you should trust you enough because you are his woman, and he has no reason to think otherwise.

Never Acknowledge His Mistakes

He is very defensive, he does something wrong, but will never acknowledge it. Clearly, this is someone who is not interested in you. We all make mistakes, and when we know, we accept, apologize to our partner, and move on. If he does not apologize, he is always on the right side, which means he does not care about how you feel and is not interested. How about moving on?

He tells you he is Not Interested

Some men are decent enough, they will actually tell you that they are not interested and will not give you false hope. The truth always hurts, but time heals. You will cry for a few days, a month, or two months, and then you will get over it. A man who pretends to be trying not to hurt your feelings will end up hurting you more in the end. You should appreciate him who calls a spade a spade and tells it as it is, no sugar coating.

Does Not Talk About Future Plans with You

You will know he is not interested if he does not talk about his future plans with you. He never talks about children, investments, education, or where to stay, he just never talks about the future with you, he is not interested. A man who is interested in you will see you in his future and talk about it with you, He will hope that you will be excited about being part of his future forever.

Talks to Other Women on Your Face

A man will show you he is not interested by talking with other women in your presence. He will flirt with other women without caring about how you feel. He will receive late-night calls from other women and show you disrespect by saying that if you care about who you are, you should just peacefully walk away. Do not wait for him to throw you out, he is already communicating with you, screaming through his actions that he does not care about you.

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