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Handling Troublesome In-laws

The last aspect is their relationship with their families. Some people may be adults, but their families can not let them be who they should be. They still control them and make decisions for them. A man or woman ready for marriage should not be controlled or have someone determine what they do or not. Well, they can give their opinions, but he or she is the last person who should make the decision. You do not want to be with someone who even cancels your dates just because he received a call from home, to do an obvious thing.

Should you find yourself in such a situation, then you should end things before it is too late. You can choose to ask them if they ever feel that they are doing too much for their family more than they do for themselves, that with this kind of energetic drain, they can never establish their own family. ” From my observation, you are unable to sit still and say no to your family and let them organize their life. You seem to gain a sense of validation and importance in the world when you are rescuing them.” Make sure you challenge them before you leave, because you have decided to leave anyway, so you have nothing to lose.

Sometimes, you may have to deal with a person who says they can not move things forward until their mother or father approves. Ask yourself, how many other things will the mother or father need to approve.

Some families may get too close to you soon. Anytime you start talking to a person and their family starts coming to your space, it’s not love. It’s either control or you are being sucked into rescuing them from their troublesome son or daughter.

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